I’ve always wondered what Wyoming was like. Growing up, my friends and I would spend our weekends at the barn watching movies about horses and cowboys, galloping into the sunset and across breathtaking landscapes. This essay was a great read for me, because it answered a lot of questions I’ve always had. I think what makes it special it the level of detail in the descriptions, as well as the raw honesty of the author. Wyoming is described as a very special place, because even though there is so much space, it feels like no one there really feels lonely. Ehrlich describes people as quiet but insightful. When someone has something to say, they won’t hold back, and will often talk just as much as they have to, never more. The conversations even become metaphorical, but the atmosphere is never cold or unfriendly. People will drive to ranches ten miles away, just to have dinner in silence. Silence is an element that is treasured by all Wyomingans. They have adapted to live alongside nature, and therefore space has become their friend.
To me, this essay uses space as a metaphor for history, sincerity and reality. Space is the embodiment of freedom, diversity, acceptance, wilderness. However, just like all of these things, too much of it can be extremely damaging and harmful. “So the dark side to the grandeur of these spaces is the small-mindedness that seals people in. Men become hermits; women go mad.” The people of Wyoming are so spread out that it is difficult for them to have an accurate perception of the world, despite their efforts to keep in contact with each other. But it is also true that they are simply a reflection of human nature. They, like the rest of us, have not yet learned how to “carry space inside [themselves] the way they carry their skins.” Few people are able to cope with space, as most resort to fillers to help them alter what we already have, and fill what we see as a void. Wyoming has a lot of physical space, which is why it is easy to see the effects it has on its people. They become more and more isolated – because physical space reminds you of all those voids inside you and everything that’s missing: it leaves you alone with your thoughts. To survive the presence space it to accept the fact that space occurs within all of us. No one has it all, and it’s up to us to learn and accept that, because the secret to finding happiness is understanding that we will probably never be completely “filled.”